how to release yourself from bondage

it’s been an intense past few months for me. it seems like as soon as i recover from one thing, something else happens. i’m sure you can relate. 

one thing, probably the major thing, that drew me to bdsm dynamics is the ability of the submissive to let go. it’s not an easy thing to do but for some of us (maybe most of us) it’s not only a sexual release but also a spiritual one. at least this is what i’ve been discovering for myself.

it’s amazing to me how by releasing yourself over to someone else’s control is in essence releasing yourself from your own personal bondage. it allows you to step outside of yourself, to release control and open yourself up to possibilities. and for me, and i’m sure many others, this brings a great sense of relief.

as a submissive, letting go allows the mind (and body) to finally quiet in its release. it also brings with it freedom. this is the ultimate paradox. if you want to release yourself from bondage, release control to someone else. (safely, of course.)

this is just one of the things i’m pondering this week as i’m navigating another surprise situation that i’m hoping has a good resolution. even in times like these, i’m turning to what i’ve learned through bdsm to release and let go, to free myself from the bondage of control.

as always, i’d love to know what you think. please take a moment to comment below.