i’m obsessed with sexist ads!

it must be the submissive in me but i’m totally obsessed with sexist ads. i know they’re not “right” and i feel bad for the women of the time who had to put up with them (like my mom) but there’s something about them that just turns me on. i believe 100% in equality...

happy new year

i can’t believe it’s almost halfway through the first month of the year. i’m happy that the days are slowly getting longer (i’m in michigan) and the sun has been making a surprise appearance. the writing hasn’t been flowing as much as...

what it means to surrender

i’ve been exploring the dynamics of submission and what it means to surrender for several years, both sexually and spiritually, but it isn’t until recently that i’ve begun to discover for myself exactly what it means to surrender. it started out with...
happy birthday to my hubby

happy birthday to my hubby

what started out as a way to wish my husband happy birthday tomorrow turned into several hours of thinking up the most salacious and racy things i could do for him. i created a sexy submissive oriented coupon book for him complete with 50 different coupons – some that...
happy birthday to me!

happy birthday to me!

i’m not even going to begin to tell you how old i am but i will say it’s a milestone birthday. i can’t believe how quickly the time flies by. it makes me acutely aware that i must make every moment count. i am so grateful to have you as part of my...